Distance, to me, is measured in the FaceTime calls, the longings, the lonely nights, and the countdowns. Distance for two people in a relationship is the everyday commitment and promise to work together for the future; even when apart. It includes daily affirmation and a lot of effort. I have to give Laken a lot of credit, she loves me so well- even from 4000 miles away. An important factor in keeping our relationship strong is good conversation, staying in the word, and daily prayer. There’s a few verses that have helped me this past month, and my hope is that it can help those who are spending time away from loved ones. If not, maybe it will help some understand the situation we are in right now- and to be praying for us both. Genesis 31:49 - “And Mizpah, for he said, “The Lord watches between you and me, when we are out of one another's sight."” One of the hardest things currently is not being physically present when your significant other needs you. FaceTime and messaging is fine, but there is nothing like a hug or face to face conversation to relieve some stress. Helplessness has overcame me, feeling like I can do nothing during a struggle. This verse has comforted me knowing that God is watching both of us. It’s helped me not be able to worry as much knowing God is there- even when I can’t be. “Luke 18:1 - He told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart.” Personally, this verse is my favorite. First off- I’ve been praying furiously for Laken. The conversations I have with God helps put me in a thankful mood. I’m beyond blessed- she loves me and loves Christ even more. The prayer and scripture focus, plus good conversation, is key to not losing heart. Losing heart is super easy to do in situations of long distance- but daily prayer helps. Keeping in the word, daily prayer, and taking comfort in knowing God is watching us both are huge- but these little things have also helped me this summer: keeping a journal, sending letters, FaceTime calls, pictures of Laken drinking coffee from my favorite mug at home, receiving photos of her (that her sister, Megan, takes- she’s a photography major), talking about her with people at Cairn Brae.
Honestly, this summer apart has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But I do know one thing, it is going to be so worth it. Last summer, when I spent a month apart from Laken, I fell deeper into love with her. I guess the saying, “distance makes the heart grow fonder” truly applies. I can already tell the rich conversations and quality time spent together on August 19 will be the best we have shared. Blessings, BH
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